7 Things That Men Secretly Pay Attention to in Women


Nowadays, people share a common belief that men are not attracted by tiny details but superficial things. In fact, the opposite trend happened. They pay attention to things that women don’t even think about. And obviously, to help you recognize and have a better look, we will describe some of those elements that could benefit you.

01 – Face expression (image 01)

If you think that men see conspicuous signals like tears or a smile only and ignore your deeper emotions, you make mistakes. All people gained this skill to be able to distinguish between friends and enemies. Insincerity reflected in cold eyes and slight disappointment in lips compressed together is also what they notice when talking to you.

Emotion-reading skill allows men to understand women’s needs even before themselves. Moreover, this ability to be sensitive can even excite men because it helps them feel special.

02 – Outfit colors (image 02)

Everyone knows that colors affect our mood, emotions, and appetite differently. Red symbolizes energy and passion. Black stands for elegance, reliability, and shyness, while pink symbolizes warmth and tenderness.

Sometimes on a date, a woman just puts on her favorite dress that she feels comfortable with the most but pays no attention to its colors. However, her husband or boyfriend will see that color as signals about her mood; his intuition probably picks up on this. Be careful on outfit colors, or you will be in some silly trouble. 

Additionally, there’s such a thing as a color personality type that divides people into 4 categories. It will help you to know these types when you meet new people by learning about their character from their appearance.

03 – Whether she sings in the shower or not (image 03)

When we take a shower, we’re all alone. We’re calm and don’t feel shy. Our stress level decreases, and our brain starts producing dopamine, causing feelings of pleasure. In these moments, we unconsciously sing about our mood, whether it’s good or bad.

In fact, this behavior helps a person “restart” themselves and relax even if they know that someone’s at home. This relaxation is good for our health because it prevents us from being stressed and turning into fights and arguments.

It’s not surprising that men pay attention to this. It helps them process the mood of their partner, leading to a better future of their relationship.

04 – The way she texts (image 04)

Not many of us dare to show our real emotions and discuss our feelings freely. We are embarrassed by being caught or revealed through their eyesights. Without making eye contact, we tend to show ourselves more comfortably, especially those accustomed to dropping hints. Certainly, texting is the best way for women to do it. They reveal true feelings and are usually more sincere. And definitely, men know this.

They try to decipher all the signals that they get in messages. They count on how many times the women text them in a day. They also pay attention to how often, when, and why women send them messages.

More interestingly, linguists say that the words that we use tell about our character a lot. Frequent phrases like “I think, I feel” mean that a person is focused on themselves. If a person always tries to persuade you that they are sincere using “I bet, believe me,” they may be lying. It’s easier to pick up on this while texting, which explains why people successfully use this method to judge the other person.

05 – Drinks that she prefers (image 05)

Preferences in drinks, food, and clothes speak louder more than you thought. We usually have seafood with white wine. We have gin and tonic with our friends, but we take red wine when we are stressed.

The more delegated a man is, the more attention he pays to this. It helps men to figure out what to order next. And more elegantly, it shows them the current mood of their loved ones. They also notice the way women drink. It can tell whether women drink because they enjoy the taste or whether they’re addicted to it.

06 – Clothes she wears to impress (image 06)

As mentioned before, men pay lots of attention to clothes. But don’t impress them with only famous brands, the newest collection, or price tags. They will be attracted by the sense of elegance, style, and s*xuality first of all.

It’s also possible to figure out a woman’s attitude toward a particular guy based on how she’s dressed. She’s probably very interested in the guy if she goes on a date in a gorgeous dress and with her hair done tidily. On the other side, it’s probably a bad sign if she doesn’t care and comes in her everyday outfit.

It’s also significant how confident she is. If she looks great but feels shy and trembles, it won’t make a good impression. But if she is relaxed just the way she is without trying to impress anyone, this can improve her image.

07 – Whether she eats a lot of meat or not (image 07)

In most cases, women prefer to eat salad on a date. They admitted that they’re scared to give the impression of someone greedy and eating a lot. But more intentionally, fit and healthiness are what they are trying to present.

In reality, this behavior brings back the inverse impacts. Men feel more comfortable with a woman who orders a steak and looks confident and relaxed. Women who eat salads look shy, self-conscious, and as a result, less attractive and seem like rabbits.

Definitely, this doesn’t mean that women should eat only greasy dishes just to impress men. The point is to order anything you want without hesitation, whether it is meat or salad.

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