Don’t worry, ladies. The world empathizes with you in your struggles to understand your man. It can be really frustrating for you to have to figure out what your man feels or thinks about you. And the world knows it. You aren’t alone in your struggle. It’s just that men typically don’t find it as easy or as natural as you do – the act of expressing themselves. A lot of guys are more physical with the expression of their feelings, and they’re not really verbal creatures.
They don’t really like to talk about what’s inside and they have a tendency to keep their feelings bottled up. And it kills you every single day in your relationship as you try to read him to the best of your abilities. And this can lead to you feeling insecure about your place in his life. And that’s okay. It’s normal to have insecurities even in the healthiest of relationships. But as the saying goes, you can’t judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree. If a man just isn’t into the whole verbal expression game, then you have to learn to read him in other ways.
And it’s pretty simple really. You just have to know what to look out for. Men are more physical creatures than they are vocal ones. So even if he’s not articulating his love and affection for you at every turn doesn’t necessarily mean that he doesn’t love you. Just because he doesn’t tell you that you’re important to him doesn’t mean that he doesn’t value your place in his life. Sometimes, you construct your own insecurities and that’s your own fault as well.
So before you let your insecurities get the best of you, it’s time to take a look at the signs and see why he’s definitely a guy who considers you to be the most important girl in his life.
1. Whenever he looks at you, he makes you feel like you’re the only girl in the room.
He has eyes only for you. And he looks at you with the kind of sincerity and realness that most other girls can only dream of. He may not be saying much with his mouth, but he’s definitely letting you know how he feels with the way that he looks at you.
2. He runs errands for you even without you even having to ask him.
He does whatever he can to make your life easier. And that’s why he has no problems with just running errands for you even when you don’t ask him to.
3. He makes it a point to always put you above other things in life.
Life is really about being able to balance priorities. And when it comes to balancing his priorities, he always makes it a point to make sure that you come out on top more often than not. He never wants you to take a backseat to the other things in his life.
4. He really makes an effort to integrate you into his life.
He lets you into the things that he’s most interested in doing. He introduces you to all of the important people in his life because he knows that they’re going to have to get used to having you around as well.
5. He genuinely knows how to read your mood.
6. He proudly goes out with you for all the world to see.
He’s not looking to keep you locked away. He isn’t shy about the relationship that you have together. He proudly changes his Facebook relationship status to let the world know that you’re together. He proudly lets you take his arm as you’re walking around the mall together.
7. He commits to you and only you.
You never catch him flirting with other girls. He never goes playing around with other women. It’s just you. And he’s serious about keeping it that way.
8. He does a lot of talking with his actions.
He might not be saying so much with his mouth, but he’s really going to tell you that he loves you with his gestures and actions. He takes care of you whenever you’re feeling ill. He tells you a joke whenever you’re feeling upset. He does what it takes to make you feel happy.
9. On the rare occasions that he does open up, he lets you in really deep.
He might not talk to you much, but on the rare times he does, you can be assured that the stuff he tells you is stuff that you alone will know about. This isn’t the kind of stuff he would ever open up to anyone else about.
10. He makes an effort to really get to know you.
He’s not selfish at all. He understands that part of being in a relationship with you is getting to know you as a person. And that all starts with listening to whatever opinion you might have. It begins with really taking an interest in the things that you’re most passionate about.